Well good thing I didn't tell her I love her yet... Well, it seems the universe has a cruel sense of humor. Just when I thought things were going smoothly, I got a phone call this morning that threw me for a loop. My girlfriend, the one I thought I was building a future with, broke up with me. Her words, "I knew I shouldn't have reached out to you. The last thing I wanted to do was hurt you. You didn't do anything wrong," echoed in my mind. But what am I supposed to do with those words? They feel like a Band-Aid on a bullet wound. It's not like she was blind to the fact that I'm busy. When we started dating, she knew I juggled four jobs and coached. I even asked her if it was going to be an issue, and she assured me it wouldn't. We made plans together, even talked about me selling my home and moving in with her. We talked about marriage. I was a week away from finalizing the sale of my home to my coworker. Now I have to explain that I can't se...